How To Pick Up Women - Unclear Indications And Flirting

When we are talking about the subject of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do to "pick up women", or just "how to pick up women".

I recently got asked the question: "Why do women flirt with you and when you flirt back they snub it? It's so confusing!!!" I thought it was interesting and important enough to share.

First of all, women have different characters. What is being mentioned here is a type of personality, not all women in general. The personality type that generally does this kind of actions is a little insecure. They are testing the water, but they don't really want to jump in.

The best way to handle this personality type is when you notice it is not to react, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she wants, let her take the lead. Let her handle how the romance goes. If you don't react, she will get comfortable with you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will usually run away.

Issue is, however, people with equal or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So sometimes you can get the opinion that the whole world is in one direction, when in fact it may be only a certain percentage of people who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, change your environment. Go to a different place, meet different people in different environments and perhaps you will discover different personality types and perhaps one that is more appropriate for you.

Now having said that, let's observe it from a different angle. Women in general like flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt because they are interested in a woman. Ladies will flirt to see if they get a response, to see if they are looking good and are desirable, even when they are not fascinated with a man. They will flirt with a man they are only interested in being friends with.

One way to get better control of these situations is to check out all the communication mediums that a woman is using to communicate - Like verbal, emotional, physical, psychological, and sexual communications.

When a girl likes you she is likely to communicate that she likes you across all of the communications channels. When she is just playing around she will give you confusing communications. So when you find a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you across ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation serious.

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